As this is my own personal blog and I rarely post such emotional stuff here, it still gives me a good output for my feelings. On my travels and all through my life, I have dated far too many girls and married zero. It has been hard to find the right person and settle down. Perhaps I’m too fussy, but really only God will have the answer. Anyway, here are some of my dating style experiences and my thoughts on them.
Using Apps
These days there are so many new dating apps to download and get into and these vary from country to country. By far the most common ones are Plenty of Fish, Tinder and Zoosk. I have used all three but only through Tinder did I actually meet up with girls. It was nothing amazing but certainly a good idea for shy people. Unfortunately I no longer have the shyness problem, and am probably a bit too up front to girls on there, so I use them less often now.
Using Adult Dating Sites
I have used lots of online options for dating in my time too, particularly adult dating sites. This gives you a good chance to meet a girl who is mature and adult enough to know what they want in life. You can check out their profiles online before you even meet them so this dispells any doubts you might have in advance. You can ask all kind of questions and get to know them online first. A great idea and one I recommend as it doesn’t carry many risks.
Speed Dating
In 2004 and in 2017 I went speed dating. It’s just a bit of fun though and I rarely hear of couples actually hitting it off after a speed date. Basically you get around 15 single guys and 15 single girls in a room and they get three minutes with each person, rotating from table to tabel until they find the one they want. It doesn’t always work out but definitely an exciting evening, so try it!
Meeting in Real Life
This is the winner folks – the best and most real. My best girlfriends and lovers have been those who I met in real life. For example, Panny Yu, to whom I was engaged – we met in real life on our journeys and enjoyed visiting EVERY continent and 44 countries together, amazing! For the record, here are the countries:
Antarctica, Argentina, Uruguay, Brazil, Guyana, French Guyana, Suriname, Mexico, Belize, Guatemala, Honduras, Northern Ireland, Republic of Ireland, Sweden, China, Hong Kong, Macau, Tunisia, Italy, Iraq, Iran, UAE, Qatar, Turkey, Kurdistan, Nagorno Karabakh, Georgia, Armenia, Azerbaijan, Australia, South Korea, North Korea, Malaysia, Singapore, Sri Lanka, Indonesia, Thailand.
Sex Tourism
I’m against any kind of sex tourism and exploitation of males or females. I was sexually and physically assaulted by a girl on my travels, this was a person I trusted who took advantage of my kindness, my sincerity, my honesty and my good likes and then physically abused me in public and I was helpless. The police were later involved as I plunged into deep depression but then I realised that transparency and honesty might actually be better online. After this, I opted to use some sex dating sites to see if there was more honesty there. I was pleasantly surprised that those people were more honest than a few of those potential partners I had met in real life.
